Never again no shame when having sex with the couple in bed, try to be more daring. Start with small things, if you're used to having sex with the lights turned off, now try making love in a bright room.
Vary the place to make love, such as the family room (make sure the kids are asleep) or even a kitchen. No need to get out of your comfort zone too much, but try new things that can add excitement to your sex life.
Open what they want
Communication is key to a happy sex life. Before you start making love, Dr. Barnaby Barratt, president of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists as reported by Savvy Miss suggest you tell your partner with words what exactly you want.
The best and fastest way you can do to make your husband know the desire is to tell and show the couple.
Communication about sex also needs to be done after the sex session. The last thing you want to do after having sex with your partner satisfied certainly talk or discuss how the activity. But do not judge or blame the partner's actions when you do not get satisfaction.
Learn to love your own body
Get sexual gratification will be more difficult if you think only the width of the waist, hips or thighs shape that you think too much during sex.
From now on, try to love your body what it is. It is not easy, and the practice is usually more difficult than the theory. But by instilling a positive body image, it helps you get the performance that much better sex.
The more you feel comfortable in yourself, confidence is increasing as a result, sexual performance is also better quality. Keep in mind, kepercyaan yourself is key to be able to enjoy a moment of lovemaking.
So every time you feel uncomfortable with the appearance of the body, convinced are that you are one of the many women who choose their husbands, and husbands to love as you are.